The Dravidian Polity Part 1 - The Why, The How & The Whats

Politics had always been a forbidden yet attractive concept to me like the many more million Indians from a non-political family background. We have always been instructed to stay away from even involving in talks related to the Elections, the policies & Ideologies of the different parties and such restrictions have been a major factor that has always made me follow the different happenings in the State & National elections and the different alliances being made, though I cannot deeply understand why any such alliances are made and what rationale is behind both the parties to join hands.

I may have been following this since my Late teens, still I am not one who argues that a particular ideology is better than the other or one party is better than the other - After all I thought the prime motive behind parties & candidates was to do greater good to the people - But only the - "to which people" varied from party to party & individual to individual. 

Off late my Social Media TLs have been flooded by much mere vulgar abuses of one particular party supporter on the other & vice versa. What should & could have been a discussion of the contrasting political parties ideologies is only a mere verbal personal abuse pertaining to caste, religion & gender. Then I started to want to know more about was this the case in the past and more often than not it has been. So I started to know more about that and I am writing this series of blog posts primarily about the rise and key events of Dravidian Politics ,without any prejudices or inclination towards one particular ideology, not in any order other than the thought of my mind. The first post is only going to highlight the Why, The Whats & The How these series of posts are going to be:

The Why:

We are in Mid 2020 and the Tamil Nadu state Legislative elections are fast approaching and if we survive this Corona scare, every news, article & key happenings we get to know would be related to the Elections. I wanted to write these posts that will educate and not falsely influence the readers about the various milestones that shaped the current state of Tamil Nadu to what it is and the propaganda being made about it by various parties. 

The 2021 Tamil Nadu Elections is a very important exam in the TN Politics as this will shape the which parties are going to be the major superpowers of TN for the next 3 decades minimum.


Dravida Munnetra Kazhagam: 

AIADMK's leader J.Jayalalitha had become only the 3rd leader in the state to lead the party to two successive terms post Republic after Kamaraj & M.G.R (though D.M.K won consecutively in 1967 & 1971 it was led by Anna in 1967 & Kalaignar in 1971) - mainly riding the dissatisfaction wave created among the TN people against the DMK party during their 2006-11 rule. So this election is crucila for the DMK to overturn that and prove they are still the same party that evolved from Justice Party to DK to DMK, not to mention the absence of the biggest name in DMK from the beginning Kalaignar. If not now they will be doomed and most of the prominent members would be lured by other parties.

A.I.A.D.M.K:

The AIADMK camp is also missing J.J who has been one of THE powerful female leader in the Indian Polity. They have been largely earning from the benefits of the Votebank that was largely loyal to M.G.R & Amma, can they sustain this election and prove that they have evolved as a party and have the roots as strong as D.M.K. is the biggest question in their HQ & not to mention the differences in the party leadership and all the notable circus jumps that are sure going to happen from the party in the campaign leading to the election.

Notable Others:

As said by Kamarajar famously TN is being currently ruled by ஒரே குட்டையில் ஊறிய மட்டைகள்  - DMK & AIADMK.

Since the 1967 election only DMK & AIADMK have been in power in the TN Assembly and there has not been many notable others except Desiya Murpoku Dravida Kazhagam who became the opposition party in the 2011 Elections ousting the incumbent DMK party by 6 seats. Will the 2021 election bring another notable party in the front is a big question and expectation of many TN people, but we will have to see how the election campaign & political game proceeds ahead.

The How:

How do I expect the common man like me who just has a curiosity but not much of an in depth knowledge of the Dravidian Polity and the Ideologies to  know what is the truth behind the various propaganda the political parties are going to put forth in this upcoming campaigns. 

I am going to write in these series of posts some of the key events that led to the formation of the Dravidian ideologies, the events that led to the formation of a Dravidian polity, the events that sparked the need for the same, the key events that contrast the Dravidian ideology to the Nationalist ideology & not to mention the history of the TN Politics and the various elections along with a bonus package of some of the biggest scams and corruption campaigns that have occured.

I do not intend to write these posts with any prejudice or inclination towards a particular party or leader but I will write and mention with respect the notable leaders that have made this state what it is today and rightly criticize the flaws they had.  

The Whats:

I will write about the various events from the beginning of Justice Party till the recent demise of our great leaders not in any chronological order but in terms of the socio-economic impact they had and I will also write my opinion about the same in a neutral manner. This will include but not exclusive to the reservation reforms, the caste ideologies, the Atheist ideologies and the Notable Non-Brahmin manifesto.

The earliest I could trace the formation of a seperate ideology from that of the nationalist ideology is at the formation of Justice Party. In case there is a precedent to that I will also write about that. I hope we get to know many notable events and reasons why a Seperate dravidian polity was formed and if they still hold good today, if yes the essence of that is maintained in the right form without extremism in the coming years also or alter it in a right way that it benefits the majority of the people without any caste, creed & religion or language barriers. 

Jallikattu - The portrayed cruel face of a Tamil tradition

It's only highly appalling to me if I don't write down all my anger and frustration about the comments and articles recently being seen all over the media about the traditional "Jallikattu - Bull taming festival" I repeat it is "Bull taming and not Bull Fighting". Being one of the person who lives in close proximity to all the major Jallikattu hosting locales, it is only proper and just that I do so.

If I can remember the first instance I saw Jallikattu live properly, then it was in my home village around 15 years ago, when most of the rules were not strictly followed. I was standing on the outermost circle possible as I was frightened that any of bulls might run into the crowd and witnessing it. The Jallikattu in most interior parts would start by first releasing the "Kovil Kaalai - The village's guardian temple's bull", which no one must try to catch. It will wander around the ground for some time and go. Then the competing bulls will be released one by one, with the person in the mic instructing the participants in the ground on how to tame the bull. Some bulls might be first timers, during releasing such bulls the commentator will indicate it so that the amateurs in the sport only will try taming such bulls. A few instances of tail pulling and the bulls hurting the participants did happen. It was one of the very memorable times to witness the thrill and the guts portrayed first hand.

Everyone in Tamil Nadu will definitely have such experiences of their own. If you are doubtful then you are most welcome to question this to anyone who lives in not just the "metro cities". Okay now all this memories and thrills and stuff, is this worth when it comes at the cost of the suffering of an animal? One might ask. For them my answer is only this "You are making a judgement without proper depth knowledge". Let me tell you a few things about the Jallikattu :

Jallikattu can be translated into English as "Bull Taming and not Bull Fighting". If you have seen Jallikattu in movies where the hero fights the bull one on one and takes him to ground by twisting his horn and think of that as Jallikattu, then you are extremely uninformed.


Here are the important rules:
1. The rule is that the person (and please note that only one person) should grab the hump of the bull and travel till the finish line - Mostly 50 meters or for 5-7 seconds.
2. No one must grab the bull by it's tail or horn, such participants will be immediately disqualified.
3. Only one person must try to grab the bull, two or more people must not try to tame it.
4. No one is allowed to hit/kick the bull or by any means hurt it, they will be disqualified immediately.
5. All the participants will be medically tested before being allowed to participate and will be handed over uniforms. Only they will be inside the ground.
6. All bulls will be released one by one only and the bull will not be released if people are hooting or howling at the bull and frightening it.
7. All bulls will also be medically tested before allowing them to participate.
8. Minimum 4-5 ambulances and same number of medical teams will be present with all the required first aid in case any one gets hurt.
9. Proper supervision will be done by either the District Collector or any Government official of high ranking so that these rules are strictly followed.

So now you will be fairly clear that utmost care is taken on part of the organizers for safety of the bull. Now I will tell you about the more important people - The one's who grow and train these bulls and how it is done. A Jallikattu bull will be given the treatment of an Alpha-Male in the family. It is the most important pet for the ones training it. If during the competition anyone tries to hurt the bull then they will not only be disqualified but also will be put to proper "treatment" by the bulls' owner.

The bulls will be taken care of with extreme nutrition and protection before, during and after the event. They are trained to perform.

If you still have the idea that it must be banned then please read further for the few things in ths world you need to stop before stopping Jallikattu :

1. You then need to support to ban sports like Rugby and American Football where humans are trained to fight head on and there are numerous cases of people who have gone crazy after their career due to the number of hits they've taken.
2. You need to stop eating meat all together, no animal willingly sacrificed their flesh for you to taste and if being provided with the meat of an animal that died a natural death or out of sickness you will get angry. So stop eating meat if you really care about animals.
3. This is the most important thing, Stop making judgments and supporting for things where you have not been directly involved or directly witnessed or have clearly understood the rules.

When talking about Cricket in India, do you talk about the betting story of  Mohd. Azharuddin and Ajay Jadeja or the World Cup glories of 2003 and 2011?

The same way, when you talk about "Our- Tamil Tradition" first understand it, then look at the steps taken to avoid any casualties or even accidents involved and then look at the negative side (I assure they have been eliminated mostly if not completely). This is our tradition and kindly do not put in your hypocrite suit and supporting the ban against Jallikattu when eating the KFC Grilled burger or Beef Biriyani.

All we want to do is for our future generations to know about the traditions and how we treated these animals as more than just a property, if you can't help it then don't *BEEPing* ruin it. Over and out!!! Meet you soon at one of the Jallikattus. :)  

Meditations of the inner mind

It's been quiet a while (almost 6 months) since I published a post in this blog page. I had rather been lazy to take time to type what was going on inside my mind, but then one might ask what brought me back to this page where I used to share almost all the things that went inside my head after a happening day. The reason being one book that I started reading recently (48 hours ago).

Before telling about the book I would like to explain the word Meditation: Many people think it is to sit down in a posture and close your eyes and think about and experience the almighty.  But actually do you find it? No, but what else? You can see is the real identity of yours and the thoughts that flow like a seamless river when you can remove all the worldly noises and concentrate on the silence created inside the mind. What you experience is a monologue of your mind or a dialogue between the two minds you have. To me meditation does not necessarily require the posture and closed eyes, any place and any time when you hear the monologue or dialogue and try to speak your mind inside you, you meditate.

The book being titled "The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius" is a collection of the thoughts penned down by the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius. He wrote the passages way back in 161-180 A.D., but when I read it today, I could relate to it and it had changed my perception towards quiet a few things if not all things. Marcus wrote down his thoughts and the conversations he had to himself. But how could this inspire me back to blogging? Actually Marcus did not have an idea of publishing it, but however he wrote down his thoughts, but decades later after his death they read his writings and published it, from then this is one of the best books that has broken perceptions and plateaus for centuries. 2000 years after its original version was written I can still get a perception broken, but had not Marcus written his thoughts, we wold not have such a wonderful piece of literature (Forgive me I never meant to compare my blabbering to his masterpiece passages). What seems idiotic to you might seem a better idea to someone else, so not only me I urge everyone who reads this to maintain at least  a journal of their thoughts, if not to someone else it will definitely be useful to you to identify the person you were in the past and know how much you've evolved.

So what do I write about? It would only be right to start again with one of the best passages written by him that is given in the intro of the book itself. The line being

"... the small cracks in the bread which is a mistake of the creator when it is being baked, but that pores and cracks are the ones that increase our appetite and the beautiful smell that comes from the olives when it is about to decay..". 

The passage tells us that not everything is perfect but you've got to love the minor differences everybody is born with like the cracks in the bread, some call it a defect but only dew see the beauty in it. Same is the case with many of us, some short, some tall, some lean some fat everyone is born different. Very few try to embrace the differences but all the others treat it as a defect we are born with. You've got to love thy differences after all that's what makes you unique from others. When in school many of my friends would identify me from about a distance.When asked how they told me that when they saw a small face sitting on top a big body they could ID me. Yes that's one of my differences. I thought about it for some time, and then I decided however I cannot pull my face to become longer and bigger so I got to embrace it, however it helps my friends to easily identify me from a distance.

You can see everyone the guy with a long nose, that girl with a not so perfect tooth line. The perfect remedy to anyone who has difference is not to hide it but to show it off. What you thought would spoil your beauty will now help you compliment it.

Your differences will become your uniqueness if you can accept it. However these terms and conditions would be applicable for the differences on the exterior. In the interior every human was born to reciprocate forgiveness and affection. If you think you are different in that category and you have hatred and try to embrace it than to change it, then it would only become the one that condemns your beauty.

Will meditate again soon. :) 

Being an Instant traveler

It's been almost a year and a half since I've written, so here I am to write about what I had experienced as a part of my job in the past year. My job is Marketing but above Marketing it's travelling. I even thought of this post whilst I was travelling.

When it comes to travelling, there are three types of people I know as to my knowledge:

1. The planned traveler : This is the person who when entering into the office, gets a call from his/her parents, the conversation being, "It's 20th August, the reservation for Diwali on November 22nd will begin today. Don't forget to book it". Yes a person who books his ticket in train for a travel 3 months prior to his travel.

2. The backpack traveler: Actually this is the person who travels for enjoying the travel itself. He has fun, visits new places, has a map in his hand and a backpack with trekking rope and shoes. Actually these are the gifted people to travel.

3. The instant traveler : This is the most cursed type. You enter into the office in morning and you get a call from your client, the conversation being, "Our CMD wants to meet you immediately, be here at 10.30 AM tomorrow", and there begins your turmoil to plan for the meeting next day while you complete the daily work piled up at office.

Me being the third category as my work demands me to travel around about 10 days a month. Though it sounds cool that I get travel to all parts of the country on a regular basis, read further to understand the delicate situation an instant traveler is put into.

PLANS??!! PLAN TO SPOIL :

I believe there is some strong connection between plans and travelling. If you are a person who needs to travel on short notice , then you better don't make any plans. I think making a plan with your friends or girlfriend will send some signals to your client to remember calling you. The moment you make a dinner reservation for the night or make Pakka plans for your friend's birthday party, the next call you will receive will be from your senior asking you pack your bag for the meeting tomorrow. It is always a walk on tight rope to make plans.

Try cancelling the dinner reservations made with your wife/girlfriend that night thinking that you'll need to travel that night, the meeting too will automatically get cancelled making you stay at home that night and ending up with plasters the next day.

RUN OUT OF WAYS TO SPEND TIME :

If you are travelling frequently, soon you'll run out of songs to listen, books to read or even movies to watch as you have already finished the recent series you bought as you didn't know what to do while travelling. Soon you'll end up staring at passer bys or the air hostess making it uncomfortable for anyone to cross your seat and become the weirdo on travel.

TRAVEL AT THE HIGHEST RATES :

One big problem if you plan for the night trip only during the afternoon is, you will find the ticket prices high as hell. The price of this ticket you saw three days ago has shot up to three times making you to crib about the ticket prices all along your travel.

TOURING AROUND THE CITY? AS IF THAT IS EVEN AN OPTION:

So I keep travelling frequently, and the first question I receive from anyone I meet is "That's cool, you get to visit the biggest tourist attractions frequently". Which makes me go furious. I have been to Delhi almost 6-7 times but I have seen only the India Gate once, that too when the taxi passed by it. Taj Mahal?? Who has two hours to travel when you even need to keep running inside the airport to catch your return flight.

GETTING A STABLE SLEEP :

Frequent travelling makes you sleep when there are rolling wheels under you so frequently that even when you sleep in your bedroom, you feel like travelling in a bus/train.


Okay there might be these much problems but still it is a cool thing to keep travelling as you will be able to meet new people every time and eat new dishes once in a while. There are also a few perks like catching a nap during the working hours, escaping calls through flight mode and getting to know which city has the best girls ( I'll write a detailed blog on that one later).!! .

Now time to take off. Dunno where I will end up being tomorrow, but sink in the moment.After all my job is just a representation of what life brings to us, a thrill and spoiling our plans and giving us better options.

Wish you all a happy Journey. 

Prep'ing the Placements

It has been quite some time since I wrote a blog post, then I had been busy searching for the purpose I joined the B-School - Placements, thus please pardon me if my thought flow is a bit confused as I am myself.

To any person who joins the B-School, ask their reasons and the answers may vary from anywhere between career growth and to gather knowledge?!! , there might be a few people who answer with "Package" though that is primarily the reason the B-School business is the faster growing one in the nation next to real estate. Real estate is facing a slump now ( One of the important intels I gathered from MBA), making the "business of an Educationist" the most profitable one here. And throughout my childhood I believed that "Business of an Educationist" an oxymoron and now people think of me as a mere moron to have thought like that.

Stop- Beating around the bush , Begin- Topic why I started to write today. Any person joining a B-School , at least in India, will have the prospect of a fatter package at the back of his mind above all the knowledge, girlfriends and job profiles offered in a B-School.To further elaborate on that statement, knowledge you mostly gather in your first year is the companies and profiles offered to your seniors and in second year it is about what companies and profiles your friends are offered. Compared to that the knowledge you gather in the class rooms are minuscule. Coming to the point of Girlfriends, in a B-School the meaning of that word can lie anywhere inside the dictionary, zeroing down the sole purpose of an MBA degree to profiles and packages. When it comes to profiles, most people dont look at it if the package is good. Proving the fact that package is all the more important.  (Phew I wrote this one big para to prove that point.)

From the above statements it is obviously making the placement season one of the biggest in the campuses, beginning from Placom and ending in a dharu party, whatever the outcome maybe. Got placed?? Enjoy with a beer. Not yet placed?? - Console with a beer. For us it is just another reason to drink. The placement seasons bring out the real grit and make of any person, it has the ability to break a person into tiny little pieces and if he is not able to hold himself up - it will wash him away. It can prove to be the best of times or the cruelest of times.

A placement day can bring up varied emotions and show the various people to us. Far too many people keep the greetings to the face and the bitching to the back. The fun in getting placed gets lost altogether after day 1 making the others just the unplaced ones. And that is the first sign of breaking a person in two. The ones that keep themselves up seeing the silver linings are the ones that escape the pressures.

Before coming into a B-School or even whilst doing the MBA degree people keep reading books like "The biggest innovators", or "Stay hungry Stay foolish" or a few autobiographies of the founders and CEO's of many companies. But when it comes to their lives people definitely stay foolish but not hungry. The hunger in them to take achieve big gets subdued to the bigger packages and brand names, and who is left over to take the risks?? The so called "un-placed group". And the primary lesson in finance put roughly means Risk is directly proportional to the returns. The people who never read most of these books are the ones that are left to write one of those in the future.

That makes us come to a conclusion that the B-School environment makes one to feel safer, that is not being the case. The one with the fire within will always have it but he was never aware of, given a situation to fight his war on his own, he became the Giant-slayer.

Just being a guy to not get placed in campus will not yield you the grit to take your risks, even if you are placed on day-1 you shall come forth if you have the mindset and attitude to believe in destiny. I believe in destiny, if thy believe in destiny come what may, stay put and thy shall write thy history.

It is the matter of whether one writes just his story or history, all that lies between is that small gap that is called courage and dare to take a leap of faith. As far as the pic that's here, it just matters which side of the table you wanna be sitting on. :)

Finally,
To those friends who got placed - Congrats,
To those who are yet to - Picture Abhi baaki hai mere dost!! :)

-Yours blogger . 

Next time when you see "The man"

Hi, I am "The man",
When I get into a bus, I don't have hairy ugly looking women trying to rub against me,
I don't have older women's eyes ogling on me at public places. 
I don't have the pressure to quit my job after marriage.
I don't have a penis that bleeds once a month.

But what do I do when I see a girl??
When I see a girl at school, I go after her and when she denies me I call her names.
When a girl trusts me and befriends me, I propose to her and embarrass her.
I can be not provocative if I roam around in my boxers, but I can find women wearing any dress to be provocative
I don't have to struggle to go stay away from my home for my Education, 
I know all the struggles every girl has to face to get to her higher education and still I try to get her,
When I get her I forget the value of her, treat her like crap, destroy the good girl in her and leave her broken,
It is okay if I leave the girl for a hotter one and am being male, but when she leaves me for the guy I am I call her B**ch.
After all these hurdles I have given her during her education and she crosses all these and make it to a job,
I call her dominant and bossy when she tries to lead the team,
When she doesn't have an option and take public commutation, I sit or stand next to her and make her uncomfortable,
When she gets into the office and starts working I stop by her workplace once in a while asking "Any problem?" Only to cause problems to her,
After all these hurdles, she makes it into a higher position than me I make opinions about how she got that job and spread rumors about her and make her to at least go to another workplace.
I tell to my wife about my Ex-Girlfriend and expect love from her and when she does the same I make opinions about her.
When me and my like minded friends find a lone girl we try to rape and kill her,
And when I don't do any of the above but keep my cool when these occur to someone saying " She is not my wife or sister" I am most dangerous.

I do all the above and still cry that women get undue advantage at all places and equal rights must be given to men. 
Why??!!! Because I am a man and I am chauvinistic, egotistic, disgusting and crooked.
Where do you see me?? You see me everywhere.
What do I need?? I need a hard slap.
Next time when you see me anywhere , give me a hard slap. Remember "All Indians are my brothers and sister"? A sibling has the right to slap one to protect another.
So join your hands and protect your sisters from me.

-Your blogger 
P.S- Just used the word I to increase the intensity, don't slap me(blogger) when you see me next time :)

Take three mistakes & Put it in a loop

Right from our childhood we have had people- by that I mean people who think themselves to be worthy of giving advice to others and never once listen to what others say- or in other words Adults as they are only by age telling us repeatedly that one learns from his mistakes. When I started to see cricket, they told me "Sachin learns from his mistakes, if he is outsmarted by a ball once it will never happen again" and recently there has been this story going on in the web about Sachin and Brad Hogg, how Hogg is struggling to take a wicket of Sachin once again. Then when I wanted to learn Chess, they again said this "Anand learns from his mistakes too". Then I wondered whether they wanted me to learn these sports or that phrase " Learn from your mistakes" and for the record I have not learnt anything from my mistakes in these two sports "I duck in cricket and suck in Chess" :P. But the biggest wonder is that I play football and no one ever told me that I would learn from my mistakes there and I keep committing the mistakes that I did the very first time, the reason why I am good at Football is that I commit mistakes and have improved so that others don't see it.

The real reason I talked about all these learn from one's mistake is that I have never learnt from my mistakes. When thinking about the past, I know I have done three big blunders and I realize that they are the biggest mistakes I always make and yet I forget about not to commit them again. Starting from my childhood. These three mistakes come in an orderly manner and namely are
1. Lying about something to someone. 
2. Not keeping up to that lie so that the other person finds it out. 
3. Even if the other person does not find it I tell the truth and confess.
One might argue with me that these are a persons choice to remain truthful and how these can be classified as mistakes, but I do because the fruits that I reaped from any of these three steps were never tasty. Though I might console myself stating that the longer the duration between Step 1 and Step 2/3 the longer my happiness, but the hard part is that even when you are in between Step 1 and 2, you live with the fear that all three come in a package and the day is nearing. Also in the regard, the sooner the truth is found/confessed the lesser the number of broomsticks that are broken.

I realized that these three always come in a package during my school days, to be precise during the Quarterly, half yearly, Annual exams. Lets see how this cycle even started in my life:

 I came to know the fact that they conduct exams to estimate your performance with regards to the class thrice a year and only if you pass the third exam(Annual exam) you'll be able to proceed to the next class during my 2nd grade only. But back then they never questioned me in my home on how I did my exams. But they started to, when I came near to my 5th grade and was ready to go to high school. During my 5th standard Quartely exam they asked me how I did my exams and I said I did not do them well. The result I was made to read all the quarterly portions again and again during the 10 days holidays. I felt very bad when my friends were playing and I was made to read the books again and again.
Next came the Half-Yearly exams, this time I was determined to enjoy my holidays. The question was repeated " How did you do you exams " the grades I knew were going to be worse than quarterly exams, but I had 10 days of enjoyment ahead of me so I said " Superb, awesomatically I will get 90+ in all subjects ". My parents wondered about the sudden change and were happy their kid has learnt from his mistake. but they dint realize that not studying was not the mistake I made :P. There, that's the first instance this loop started and it continues till date.

Eventually the results shall be announced one day and I would get crackers on my back then a 10% bonus for lying and I would say " I did well, the teacher did not correct properly" or " A sheet must have fallen down from the answer paper" and all these did not save me. This does not end only with the exams but also for my homeworks. If I had an important wrestling match to watch on TV I would say that I completed my homework and come to watch TV and then next day my homework diary would read "Incomplete" and a routine 10% bonus crackers on my back. This did not stop with my parents, when I found out the root cause for these were the teacher, so I started to lie to her too about how the power went off when I started my homework and that my parents did not allow me to do the homework sitting outside afraid of the fact that I might get bitten by mosquitoes and get dengue/malaria. I then thought that the three mistakes need not come in a loop if I found an effective way to lie. But that dint happen too, in the next PT meet the teacher advised my parents to buy a pack of candles and while I was laughing at why she was talking useless stuff like that , she said that malaria story and then all my laughter stopped and I knew it was time for a 200% bonus. Till date I keep trying different combinations of lies to find out only how imaginative I am and that these don't work well in reality. But the one thing I got out of these is a creative mind and a happy one. To laugh at my own mistakes, not many get those chances. The lies don't stop with parents or teachers it is almost to anyone I meet, I have given them a certain amount of BS.

This has always been an enjoyable ride for me, stating a lie and getting caught for that. But why have I even mentioned these as mistakes is that these have made me to look as a not so credible person. And the suspicion has not ended with what I say but also what I write or it arises a question who writes :P.. recently there have been quiet a good deal of suspicion that I am outsourcing this blog. And how can I even counter argue that??!! I don't know. But what I can come to believe is that " A person must learn from his mistakes or else he is most likely to suffer from consistency to committing mistakes" .Thus we can  conclude
" Keep telling lies but never get caught or dont even dream of confessing"

- Happy lying :) your blogger